Hi! I'm a Monica.

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Through group coaching and individual mentoring, I guide women through their inner (r)evolution. As a transformational coach, I am passionate about sacred rites of passage, the feminine, and divesting from patriarchal programming so women can activate their innate wisdom, reconnect to vitality, and tap back into pleasure, joy, and laughter. Check out my podcast here:

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Have you ever had a THUNDER moment?

Dear Reader, I am the first and the lastI am she who is honored and she who is mockedI am the whore and the holy womanI am the wife and the virginI am the mother and the daughter Excerpt, THE THUNDER: PERFECT MIND In this impactful episode of the Revelation Project podcast, I welcome my beloved returning guest, Dr. Celene Lillie, who joins me for an inspiring exploration of an ancient text known as The Thunder Perfect Mind, the self-portrait of a divine feminine being who seems to urge us to...
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30 days ago • 4 min read
The Mother Wound

Zoom Recording & Special Invitation

A revelation is a disruption that brings a flash of insight. It clarifies something confusing or formerly misunderstood. Revelations are accessed in the feminine realm, and women are the guardians of "disruptive" energy, which always brings new life and understanding. We are in a time of great revelation, and as more UNBECOMING women rise, we will all rise and remember...the truth of who we are. Thank you so much for being part of our circle of Sisterhood today to learn about the Mother...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
The Mother Wound

See you on ZOOM in about 30 minutes!

Are you noticing any resistance- anything telling you that you shouldn't take this time for yourself? Then we double dare you to hop on with us for the next 90 minutes and receive the magic of this work! TODAY, SUNDAY, November 5th, at 3:00 pm EST! ​​ Experience a 90-minute FREE LIVE WEBINAR to experience a taste of this work through a sample of one of our teachings with myself and Libby Bunten, the QUEEN of Self-Approval! Details Here: DATE: Sunday November 5th TIME: 3:00 PM EST ZOOM...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
The Mother Wound

I had the TRIPLE Wound.

I had the TRIPLE WOUND. I was disconnected from myself, my own body, sexuality, and creativity. Self-esteem issues plagued me. I was disconnected and estranged from my Mother- feeling unseen, unloved, and unheard. In addition, I felt guilty about not being "best friends," let alone friends with my mother. We always seemed to be at odds. I was disconnected from the Goddess, the feminine face of the divine, and her presence within and around me. In archetypal terms, I was what is called a...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read


Join us tomorrow for our Free Webinar at 3:00 pm EST with me & Libby Bunten! So many of you asked, so we decided to offer it again and give those who missed it last Sunday a chance to hop on and get a taste of what UNBECOMING is all about! Details Here: DATE: Sunday November 5th TIME: 3:00 PM EST ZOOM INFO:​ Password: LOVE! Meeting ID: 207 266 6165 We hope to see you there! XO, Monica & Libby More: In the meantime, check out our podcast episode: UNBECOMING...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read

What Could You Be Celebrating Six-Months From Now?

My Question for YOU today is....." I’m feeling pretty inspired today for three reasons: It’s Friday- the weekend before we kick off another round of UNBECOMING which has been wildly successful, beyond what I dreamed was possible. My Son is headed “Down South” to explore Colleges with his Dad, and I’m celebrating this milestone in his life AND planning a romantic weekend with my husband and my tall, dark, and handsome book stack here at my tiny hobbit home in New England. I’m feeling the...
about 1 month ago • 3 min read

My Relationship With My Mother?

My relationship with my mother?" It’s complicated.” 🫠 This statement is the telltale sign that I’m in the presence of a woman carrying a heavy burden. The dynamics of mothers and daughters in patriarchal culture are complex- and beneath the complexity are confusion, longing, anger, fear, and more. I know this wound well because I unconsciously struggled with it most of my life, and it's through the work of UNBECOMING that I transformed my pain and reclaimed my personal power. The Mother...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read

UNBECOMING Webinar Recording +Takeaways & Your Invitation

Wow, we are blown away by what happens when Women are willing to be brave together in Sisterhood. Thank you for dipping your toes in the water of what it means to be an UNBECOMING woman and unpacking the Mother Wound with us. We would love to hear from you about what's here now, after being in Sisterhood together today. If you were there in person, just hit reply to this email and let us know. If you are watching the recording, Here is the ZOOM Recording Passcode: Sisters1! And we would...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read

As daughters, it burned in our bellies...

That's UNBECOMING behavior for a young lady." It was a phrase I heard a lot growing up. You? I understand now that this is how they condition us, along with thousands of micro-dosed messages that tell us to stay in our place. Until now, we have defined our worth (bodies, future, aspirations, opinions, sensuality, and opinions of others) based on a culture and system that was devised for men and by men. Many of us learned this by watching our own beloved Mothers or caregivers navigate this...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read

If it's not one thing it's your Mother...wound.

Dear Reader, The world is crying out; no one knows what to do, and no one is coming to save us. Sound depressing? It's not if we see the world events as happening for us instead of to us. It's been this way for a long time, and it's not getting better. We can keep pretending not to know that the world is on fire. 🔥 We can keep pointing the finger at 👉 the men in power, the elites, the government, or whomever we think is perpetuating the warring, conflict, colonizing, and killing. We can...
about 1 month ago • 5 min read
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